Words matter…and how we deliver them also. I have witnessed far too many times when words fired like like an un-aimed arrow pierce the heart of a friend. I have also been the one holding the bow. The damage done is catastrophic and unnecessary.
As Christians, we are to, “as much as possible live peaceably with all men.” This demands that we take an inventory of our words and actions and make changes where necessary. How can we be reconcilers and ambassadors for Christ, when we are letting our mouths go unstrestrained?
My heart breaks for the arrogant and proud heart that doesn’t consider the hearts of others. For one day it will find itself alone and depressed. Only God can break a heart like this and lead it to repentance.
Reflection
In what ways have your words hurt others?
Confess your wrongdoings to those who you have hurt. Make sure to hit all the parts.
“I was wrong for…”
“I’m sorry for…”
“Can you please forgive me?”
“I will do my best not to do it again”
Make restitution
Prayer
Father, for with our tongues we bless and curse; it ought not to be this way. Help us to use our words to build up your people and encourage them. Humble us and teach us to own our mistakes. Let us seek to make peace in word and deed, in the name of Christ, Amen!
5 thoughts on “Your Words Matter”
Our words and the way we deliver them have power to build up or tear down. I want to be a builder.
May God make it so!
Thank you Brian, it is always good to be reminded and I especially like ( and will use) your “Reflection” list.
You’re so welcome Christie! We have used that list with our kids for almost 20 yrs now. Blessings to you!
And your kids are so lovely ~
Blessings to you and yours Brian
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